She's Intimidating

She's baaaack!! And surprisingly better than ever? Oh, and she rebranded her podcast for the third time... Welcome to She's Intimidating. You know that word that people use to describe independent women to make them feel small? We either know her or we are her, either way we have something to learn and I can't wait to teach you through my own indiscretions. Follow along every week as Jess navigates through life one podcast episode at a time. Oh, and teaches you to become intimidating/how to handle it. xoxo, Jess Instagram/TikTok: @shesintimidating @jesss.arielle

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She's Intimidating

The Most Hated Girl In The Room

July 27, 2022 • Jessica Ogilvie • Episode 33

Just like I say in the beginning of this EP there is going to be people that hate you just for existing.. What's that saying? "You could be the ripest peach on the peach tree, and there will still be somebody that hates peaches." SO STOP TRYING TO PLEASE EVERYONE, and start trying to please yourself. The only person that has to spend 100% of their time with you is you. So embrace whoever that is.

In this weeks EP I give examples on when I knew that I was the most hated girl in the room and we discuss my thoughts around it. For some reason people who are sure of themselves can come off as threatening to those who aren't. And then comes the isolation. You know the part that gets you excluded from big groups and uninvited to weddings. Yup, that type of isolation. The one that makes you feel so alone and has you thinking "what did I do to deserve this." And to answer that question most of the time you did nothing. You just brought out an insecurity in someone else.

My favorite internet sensation to bring up when discussing this topic is Indy Blue. An icon. And if you don't know her you better pull up that instagram app right now. Although her clothing company Lonely Ghost is a staple in her life, as well as her traveling ventures, we are here to discuss her personality. A girl who is truly sure of herself and has a life any girl would dream to have. But with all of that comes haters. people say unecessarily mean and cruel things to her. I give her the example of "the most hated girl on the internet" and not because she did anything wrong or is a bad person. But because everyone feels the need to try and tear her down for absolutely no reason other than she brings out insecurities in them by being herself. Because a lot of people can't do that.

Everybody gets insecure but what's not okay is projecting those insecurities onto other people. And for those of you who constantly feel like the most hated girl in the room. Nobody ever remembers the most liked.

xoxo Jess

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